Shannon Shores: From People Pleaser to Power Player
“Young Shannon became an overachiever because she was a people pleaser. She needed to please others. And so that really developed in my adulthood as well. “
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This episode of the She Lift Project podcast features Kristin Thompson, a Financial Advisor at Renaissance Financial. Host Cynthia Kirkpatrick talks with Kristin about the intersection of her professional life and personal challenges, including motherhood and fertility struggles, shedding light on how these experiences shape women’s careers.
Kristin candidly shares her experiences with fertility treatments providing listeners with insights into balancing personal adversity with professional growth. She also addresses the broader implications of gender stereotypes and the importance of authentic communication in building meaningful business relationships.
Embracing diversity was discussed to gain unique perspectives, with a focus on female representation contributing to success in business settings. She shared experiences on mentorship, learning from failures, and promoting inclusivity in male-dominated industries. They talked about personal growth, authenticity, and the value of advocating for individuality while navigating work-life dynamics and overcoming professional challenges.
Chapter 1: Importance of Sharing Stories (00:02 – 01:29)
00:02: Introduction to the podcast, emphasizing the importance of sharing stories for personal growth and learning.
01:09: Encouragement for women to value and share their own stories for mutual benefit.
Chapter 2: Learning and Growth (03:00 – 04:12)
03:00: Discussion on learning from experiences, challenges, and conflicts to facilitate personal growth.
04:06: Formation of the podcast based on personal learning experiences and the aim to share valuable insights.
Chapter 3: Educational Background and Career Paths (11:29 – 15:06)
11:29: Brief mention of academic studies and the impact on different intelligences.
15:06: Comparison of generational perspectives on career planning and aspirations.
Chapter 4: Financial Planning and Preparation (27:57 – 32:55)
27:57: Focus on financial planning strategies and the importance of preparation for future transitions.
32:55: Acknowledgment of the ongoing process of learning and adapting in financial planning.
Chapter 5: Communication and Professionalism (36:43 – 40:47)
36:43: Discussion on professional behavior and challenges faced during client interactions.
40:47: Emphasis on understanding the client’s narrative on money beyond just numbers.
Chapter 6: Gender Dynamics in Communication (51:02 – 55:24)
51:02: Exploration of gender differences in communication styles and their impact on interactions.
55:24: Reflection on improving communication by being mindful of conversation dynamics.
Chapter 7: Mentorship and Personal Growth (1:19:23 – 1:25:50)
1:19:23: Importance of mentorship and personal development in overcoming internal obstacles.
1:25:50: Emphasis on gradual progression and thorough understanding in mentorship relationships.
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“Young Shannon became an overachiever because she was a people pleaser. She needed to please others. And so that really developed in my adulthood as well. “
“They say, I’m still working 60, 80 hours a week. I got into this so I could pick my kids up from school and so I could attend their soccer games that are after school and I haven’t been able to attend one. I got into this so that we could go on great family vacations. And I haven’t been on a vacation now in five years. More people are coming to us for those reasons…it’s the lifestyle sacrifices that are causing people more pain than taking home a paycheck that isn’t what they thought it would be.”
It’s not about me selling and, you know, me making money. It’s about you being satisfied and happy with what you want and what you need. And I’ve always had that kind of philosophy, and my dad had that, too. And people recognize you’re not in it for yourself, you’re in it for them. And you’re sincere, and it really goes a long way.
Leadership is not about the leader. And I equate this back to basketball. When you have coach or coaches, they can’t go out on the court and shoot the ball and dribble the ball and pass the ball. But coaches have to be really good at getting work done through others. And so from a leadership perspective, that’s how I see it. As a leader, I have to be really good at getting work done through others.
“Gallup just got done with their survey for 2022. They found 25% better profitability in companies that have great employee cultures. Because when you have happy employees, happy employees make your customers happy. Happy employees want to invite other people to come work at their company. Happy employees want to share their ideas to make the company better. All of a sudden, you’ve created this culture where people want to contribute, and that’s the reason we do what we do.”
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