December 17, 2024

Shannon Shores: From People Pleaser to Power Player

Episode 44
“I want to help women find their own beast mode and get out of their own way.”

Shannon Shores: From People Pleaser to Power Player

Episode 44

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"Young Shannon became an overachiever because she was a people pleaser. She needed to please others. And so that really developed in my adulthood as well. "

In this episode, Shannon Shores shares her incredible transformation from a quiet, people-pleasing young girl to a bold, unapologetic leader, entrepreneur, and kind-hearted powerhouse. Shannon dives deep into her journey of overcoming childhood struggles, setting boundaries, and facing the “monsters under the bed” that held her back for years. Through humor, raw honesty, and empowering insights, Shannon inspires listeners to embrace their authentic selves, manifest confidence, and step fully into their power.

If you’re a woman who struggles with self-doubt, people-pleasing, or finding the confidence to speak up and take control of your life, this episode is for you. Shannon’s journey will show you how to set boundaries, build resilience, and turn your setbacks into stepping stones for growth. By listening, you’ll gain the tools and inspiration to let go of what’s holding you back, embrace your inner strength, and take bold, unapologetic steps toward becoming the person you’re meant to be.

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Show Notes

 

Introduction and Background (00:0010:53)

  • Podcast host Cynthia Kirkpatrick introduces guest Shannon Shores
  • Shannon discusses her journey from being a shy, awkward child to a confident adult
  • Shannon shares a pivotal moment involving a sweatshirt with the message ‘You’re too much. Go find less.’
  • Shannon emphasizes the importance of building confidence and setting boundaries
  • Discussion on overcoming childhood struggles and people-pleasing tendencies

Emotional Growth and Self-Discovery (10:5322:05)

  • Shannon talks about her emotional ‘suitcase’ and learning to face past traumas
  • Discussion on family dynamics in the 1970s and their impact on personal development
  • Shannon shares her experience of becoming a ‘fixer’ in relationships and family situations
  • Emphasis on the importance of recognizing and addressing childhood influences on adult behavior
  • Shannon discusses her transition from being a business owner to an employee

Career Journey and Self-Awareness (22:0633:00)

  • Shannon talks about selling her business in 2020 and navigating the challenges of COVID-19
  • Discussion on the importance of self-awareness in career decisions
  • Shannon shares her experiences of working in different environments and learning to advocate for herself
  • Emphasis on the value of understanding one’s worth and being unapologetic about it
  • Introduction of Shannon’s new venture, Birdie Mae Consulting

‍♀️ Women’s Empowerment and Personal Growth (33:0043:21)

  • Shannon discusses her work with Premier U, focusing on women’s health and hormones
  • Conversation about the challenges women face in their 40s, including perimenopause
  • Shannon emphasizes the importance of women prioritizing their health and well-being
  • Discussion on breaking the stigma around women’s health issues
  • Shannon shares her vision for empowering women through Birdie Mae Consulting

Self-Discovery and Happiness (43:2152:09)

  • Shannon talks about her journey to discover happiness over 46 years
  • Discussion on the importance of internal happiness versus external validation
  • Emphasis on the need for women to define success on their own terms
  • Shannon shares her approach to helping women find their ‘beast mode’
  • Conversation about overcoming imposter syndrome and building confidence

Family, Acceptance, and Personal Growth (52:091:01:33)

  • Shannon shares personal stories about her family, including her son coming out as gay
  • Discussion on the importance of open communication and acceptance in family relationships
  • Shannon emphasizes the value of asking for grace and admitting imperfections
  • Conversation about finding happiness in family moments and personal achievements
  • Shannon reflects on her growth and the lessons learned from her life experiences

Future Plans and Empowering Others (1:01:341:12:09)

  • Shannon discusses her plans for Birdie Mae Consulting and her vision for empowering women
  • Conversation about the importance of self-reflection and asking ‘Who am I?’ and ‘What do I want?’
  • Emphasis on the idea that it’s never too late to pursue personal growth and new opportunities
  • Shannon encourages listeners to start their journey of self-discovery
  • Discussion on finding resources and support for personal development

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This podcast and all She Lift Project content represents the opinions of Cynthia Kirkpatrick and her guests. The content here is for informational purposes only, and should not be taken as professional advice – financial, legal, medical, or otherwise.

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