Shannon Shores: From People Pleaser to Power Player
“Young Shannon became an overachiever because she was a people pleaser. She needed to please others. And so that really developed in my adulthood as well. “
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In this powerful episode of the She Lift Project podcast, host Cynthia Kirkpatrick is joined by Shalia Ford, a seasoned leader and director of leadership programs at Focus St. Louis. Together, they dive into Shalia’s inspiring journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a community leader who empowers women and youth to discover their true potential. Shalia shares profound insights on personal growth, the importance of self-reflection, and the courage to choose yourself.
The conversation explores themes of transformation, healing, and the significance of building supportive communities among women. Shalia’s story is a testament to the strength that comes from embracing your own power and purpose, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking inspiration and guidance on their own path to leadership and fulfillment.
🦋 Introduction and Background (00:03 – 09:10)
🔍 Shalia’s Personal Journey (09:11 – 20:31)
💪 Leadership and Personal Growth (20:31 – 30:33)
👥 Women Supporting Women (30:33 – 39:12)
🔑 Self-Discovery and Leadership (39:12 – 48:14)
📚 Leadership Lessons and Favorite Books (48:14 – 58:35)
🌟 Shalia’s Writing and Future Plans (58:35 – 01:08:29)
🎓 Conclusion and Key Takeaways (01:08:30 – 01:19:12)
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“Young Shannon became an overachiever because she was a people pleaser. She needed to please others. And so that really developed in my adulthood as well. “
“They say, I’m still working 60, 80 hours a week. I got into this so I could pick my kids up from school and so I could attend their soccer games that are after school and I haven’t been able to attend one. I got into this so that we could go on great family vacations. And I haven’t been on a vacation now in five years. More people are coming to us for those reasons…it’s the lifestyle sacrifices that are causing people more pain than taking home a paycheck that isn’t what they thought it would be.”
It’s not about me selling and, you know, me making money. It’s about you being satisfied and happy with what you want and what you need. And I’ve always had that kind of philosophy, and my dad had that, too. And people recognize you’re not in it for yourself, you’re in it for them. And you’re sincere, and it really goes a long way.
Leadership is not about the leader. And I equate this back to basketball. When you have coach or coaches, they can’t go out on the court and shoot the ball and dribble the ball and pass the ball. But coaches have to be really good at getting work done through others. And so from a leadership perspective, that’s how I see it. As a leader, I have to be really good at getting work done through others.
“Gallup just got done with their survey for 2022. They found 25% better profitability in companies that have great employee cultures. Because when you have happy employees, happy employees make your customers happy. Happy employees want to invite other people to come work at their company. Happy employees want to share their ideas to make the company better. All of a sudden, you’ve created this culture where people want to contribute, and that’s the reason we do what we do.”
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