October 17, 2023
Episode 18
I made mistakes trying to be one of the guys, trying to fit in.
Episode 18

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The other thing I’m a big proponent of, you pay people to do the things that either you don’t like to do, you’re not good at, or it’s not where you add the most value.

Sheila Burkett is the Co-Founder and CEO of Spry Digital. Her company helps small to mid-size businesses design and build things for the web. She also loves to networking, teaching, mentoring, and public speaking.

She talks to Cynthia about getting started in technology back in 1985, and how that led to her becoming a General Partner at Edward Jones at the age of 33. Ultimately, she decided to leave the corporate world and jump into another fast paced industry, auto racing. She helped her husband with Tuxedo Park Racing before ultimately deciding to start Spry Digital with some like minded colleagues. She shares her wisdom on running a good business, her views on networking effectively, and the importance of prioritizing your own health and wellbeing.

Show Notes

1 – Intro 00:24
2 – What Sheila does 01:02
3 – Ownership Group 03:32
4 – Sheila’s career history 04:14
5 – Introduction to Technology 04:52
6 – Was an IT Career accidental? 06:14
7 – Challenges as a female in male dominated tech industry 08:37
8 – Was their feedback to you valuable 11:20
9 – Examples of times you would have changed what you did 12:55
10 – Feeling the need to be “on” 24/7 15:36
11 – How do we talk about the changing roles of men and women 17:14
12 – Psychology around hiring people to do your home tasks 21:08
13 – Letting go of guilt 23:14
14 – Understanding why we do what we do 24:24
15 – Kids or teammates not having same priorities as parents or leaders 26:47
16 – Overlap between personal and professional improvements 29:51
16 – Roles between Edward Jones and Spry Digital 30:55
17 – Sheila’s Consulting Practice 31:56
18 – Starting Spry Digital 32:15
19 – Turning 40 stories 33:16
20 – Details on starting Spry Digital 34:06
21 – How was transition from IT to Sales 36:18
22 – Surround yourself with the best people 38:51
23 – Networking advice 40:47
24 – Importance of genuine curiosity 45:05
25 – System of networking 45:38
26 – Networking events great places to catch up 48:14
27 – Story of male dominated networking group 49:41
28 – Best questions in networking spaces 52:50
29 – Other tips to make the most of networking 53:57
30 – Letting go of self-consciousness at events 56:48
31 – Hormonal changes 57:35
32 – Awards Spry Digital has won 59:13
33 – What is a small to mid size business 1:00:35
34 – More discussion on Spry clients 1:02:27
35 – What are key leadership philosophies of the company 1:03:33
36 – Checking core values regularly 1:05:02
37 – Contact Info 1:07:15

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