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Author of the highly acclaimed book, “Your Success is in YOU!: Empowering and Equipping You to Create Your Best Career Ever!”, Bernie Frazier, SPHR is an author, speaker, career coach/strategist, and talent acquisition expert whose mission is to help people overcome barriers to create greater success.
Bernie spent over 25 years leading corporate recruiting organizations, has served as keynote speaker for Fortune 500 corporations and organizations, and has coached clients globally from C-Suite executives to individual contributors.
She also served as the “Career Coach” on KSDK’s Today in St. Louis – the St. Louis NBC affiliate, shared timeless job search tips on SiriusXM and KTRS 550 AM radio in St. Louis, has been featured in the New York Times, and profiled in the St. Louis Business Journal.
She talks to Cynthia about her path to became a Career Strategist. She covers her early years in sales and how she learned how to be a great leader from her leader. As she plotted her career path, she noticed that certain past experiences and skills kept resurfacing in her mind, which guided her ultimate decisions. Now she helps others see those same patterns and find a career in alignment with who they are and what they love. Bernie has accumulated personal and professional wisdom over her 50+ years and she shares it all in this episode.
1 – Intro 00:24
2 – What does Bernie do? 03:03
3 – What is a career coach 04:02
4 – How does career coaching process start 06:20
5 – How did you discover these trends 08:47
6 – Meeting experience with execs 10:00
7 – Bernie’s 5th grade story 13:33
8 – Was using your voice an innate trait? 15:15
9 – Good story of a-ha moment in coaching 17:19
10 – Leaders who aren’t suited for leadership 20:20
11 – Value of good leaders 22:49
12 – Leader of 30 years ago 23:43
13 – Why do leaders miss the obvious 27:10
14 – Why did you leave because of a boss 29:06
15 – What is the LOVE acronym for great leadership 30:48
16 – The job of a leader 38:50
17 – What causes an employee to lose engagement 40:45
18 – Importance of offering leadership training 42:10
19 – Having difficult conversations 43:56
20 – Your coaching practice origins 46:32
21 – Two instances where you identified your gifts 48:43
22 – What kind of gaps dd you want to fill for people 52:13
23 – Your Book: Your Success is in YOU 55:53
24 – Asking yourself: What do you want? 58:54
25 – Women aren’t conditioned to think about what they want 59:38
26 – How do you guide someone to answer what they want? 1:01:43
27 – Wisdom with age 1:04:56
28 – External views don’t always match the internal reality 1:07:01
29 – How to keep showing up 1:10:28
30 – Helping people feel seen and heard 1:13:51
31 – Knowing who you are before you can be comfortable with who that is 1:15:29
32 – Perspective changes in 40’s and 50’s 1:18:13
33 – Philosophy on age 1:19:03
34 – Not waiting to seek a better life 1:19:35
35 – Doing the work that you really want 1:21:51
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“You gotta feed your own house first, your own four walls. And you can’t walk in, try to please everybody else. Cause you’re gonna walk out busy and broke.”
“I want my clients to feel comfortable. I want them to feel relaxed. And quite frankly, I don’t need to put on a suit to activate my brain, which is what you’re paying an attorney for.”
“I had shoved down that part of myself and that inner wisdom and intuition because I was so busy listening to, like, what the world wanted for me, what my family wanted for me, what success looked like that I couldn’t even hear my own voice anymore. And so it was coaching that really helped me rediscover that again. And for me, it was just totally transformative.”
“We outperform ourselves by 30% when we’re in a good mood… if you actually want to get more productivity, know what makes your people happy.”
“When you’re diagnosed with lymphedema, I feel like you go through all the stages of grief. And there are moments where I get angry still. There are moments that I’m very happy. There are moments that I’m sad.”
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