August 1, 2023
Episode 13
“When you stop selling what you sell, you will sell a lot more of what you sell.”
Episode 13

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“We fall into a trap when someone says, ‘What do you do?’ And we list out a title, a company, some features and benefits of the company. And the reality is you've given them a lot of techie words that they may not understand. The other thing is they can't see themselves or the people they know in what you said. So I always encourage people to tell them about the last person you helped.”

Carrie Burggraf is a Business Consultant with Wide Awake Business. Business owners call Carrie when they want to get more from their sales efforts. She spent two decades at the start of her career as a geriatric physician’s assistant, eventually moving into a sales role at a home care assistance company in St. Louis. She’s an accomplished sales representative and business coach.

She talks to Cynthia about her early career, a tragedy that shaped her, raising her three sons, and her approach to sales. She breaks down sales interactions and demonstrates the right and wrong way to approach an interaction. This episode contains proven methods and would be valuable for any sales professional.

Show Notes

1 – Intro 00:25
2 – Background 03:13
3 – Looking back, what made it worth it 05:09
4 – Do you kids remember the hard times 07:45
5 – How do we adjust to recognize and celebrate wins 09:31
6 – When did you learn how to reframe? 12:58
7 – Why are we so hard on ourselves when we know positivity is a learned behavior? 16:32
8 – Using the phone tone to trigger positive feelings 17:24
9 – Kintsugi explanation 18:35
10 – Do we need challenges in our lives to become better 20:45
11 – In sales do you see people struggling with growth 22:55
12 – Asking questions in the sales process 24:06
13 – Can you think of a time where positive energy worked out for you 28:44
14 – Approach to networking 30:24
15 – How to move beyond fears in selling 32:36
16 – How do we prioritize self care 35:17
17 – Questions to get them to shift the paradigm 40:28
18 – Reinterpreting barriers 44:41
19 – How did you get so good at the question progression 45:44
20 – Relationships vs Transactions 47:35
21 – Importance of paradigm shift 48:45
22 – Importance of storytelling 52:35
23 – Selling hangers 54:44
24 – What do you mean by easy for you 57:25
25 – More on doing what you love that is easy to want to do 1:00:24
26 – How do we contact you 1:07:27

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